BEING SINGLE

YES I'm Single ..& u have to be incredibly amazing to change that !

                                     

Almost every other friend of mine will be committed thats why i have also been used to getting on with couples.I really respect people who are committed to each other.It really needs a lot of understanding to be in a relation.
         
                  Its difficult for people who  have been single for a long time to get into a relation.they dont fall for someone with flirty talks and sweet moves.When single its really a different feeling especially for girls i guess.you dont have to report to anyone,u dont feel guilty of disobeying,u dont have the feel yes i m safe coz i always have someone to protect me,enquire abt you etc.You feel completely independent,do things on your own and above all love yourself more and more.The onlookers may feel oh poor she dont have a bf how lonely and desperate she might be.But trust me its the best to be single. stay single as long as you can coz at some point of time you have to get married and after that it will no more be just you.So as long as you can live your life for just you.

    Dont misunderstand me for a person whose against love.I am Not! i believe love is the most beautiful feeling and everyone  have to experience it at least once in life.But i support being single.i am not against marriage too.we have to experience  everything in life.


Overcoming the cons there are hell number of pros being single.You can do whatever the hell you want to,you can flirt with anyone,you can hang out with anyone anywhwere,you can put yourself out of compromise,scarfice...bla..blah.and hell yeah!you can be yourself with hell number of flaws.


 hold on there are mental and physical perks too..

You're totally in charge of your happiness.

You have a strong sense of self.

 You're more likely to be in shape.

You’re able to avoid feeling lonely.

You have richer friendships.

You get more alone time

Time to build a better you.

Like everything in life, there are pros and cons to our experiences, and being single is no exception.

SO STAY SINGLE AS LONG AS YOU CAN ;p

PUTHUVYPIN #1#DIO

V DAY

Love is not about the gifts
Or the melodramatic public show
Or the big huge surprises
Love is about the care
Its about the small things
The "only for the smile in your face" acts
Its in finding time in the busiest schedule
Its in making each day special
Its in reading the unspoken words
Its in the trust
Its in doing crazy things for the other
Its in the complaints
The small silly fights
In enjoying all the bullshit when you are together
Being for each other whatever and however be the situation
To show your love,you need not overpour with sweet
romantic words.
You just need to say those 3 special words
from your heart.
For some valentines day is the most special day to make the
other feel special but others believe that when love is special
everyday day is valentines day.

Say those 3 words only if you mean it.It may be the just another one
you are saying it to,but it may not  be the same for everyone.
Dont let the purity
and meaning of those words fade.

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.:)

DIVINITY

I m deeply madly n truly in luv wit u Its not the kind of luv which quenchs by the pleasure of touch Its not the the lust which attracts people by the beauty of outer body Its not the luv which turns into boredom with passage of time You have swept me off my feet Made me adore you Pulled me more nd more towards u each time Taken my breath away just by ur presence Its not any of ur features which made me fall for u Its your love and care for me Which made me your fan and made me love u more and more



i would stare at you for hours long
as so much is your divinity
the lure of others will be there for that point of time
but your impact on me last forever


every time i see u
u leave me awestruck
as if i am seeing you for the first
and fell for u then and there Sometimes you let me down But i know there will be some good in it for me No one can ever love me so selflessly Like you do..

MY CLICKS

PEOPLE

I luv people who luv themseleves
people who dnt pretend as of for their ego
people who speak their mind out
people who actually listen
people who dont let others know their priority levels
People who understand the private space
People who take a intiative
People who find time
People who observe

It maybe too much even to expect this much from some one
Just be the way yo want others to be with you..maybe not all
But some genuine people will actually respond..be happy keep smiling:)

Solitary

SELF LOVE

Talking to yourself, spending alone time, making yourself happy...it’s not called “being selfish” arrogant or egocentric and trust me its perfectly normal.Infact try it out you will start living a much better life. When you are in love with someone, you get that tingling feeling in your stomach try loving yourself for a change. How to do that? Do things you love..it may be going for a long walk, going for a ride alone, watching your favorite movie or laying on the wet grass counting the stars.stars. Dont blame yourself for every other thing, take responsibilities, self motivate. Don’t give the rein of your  mood to someone else .”she didn’t talk to me”, “is he so busy that he can’t even pick my call” why do expect so much from people? You have yourself  available, cant u enjoy the self company? Its not called mental disorder, its called self love. According to me, self love is a very important thing which many of us lack in our life. We love others more and forget to  love ourself. We expect more from others and end up hurting ourself.Who is at loss? We end up having a bad day or if prone to this on a constant basis even depression can be the end result. At the end of the day eat others head for spoiling our life. Why blame others if you cant control yourself. You yourself are solely responsible for how you are and what you become. So try to bring in self love in your life..:)

AROUND THE WORLD

Pink fall in bruge,Belgium,Europe

Candle festival,Thailand,Asia

Victoria falls,zambia and zimbabwe,Africa

Spider bridge at sun city resort,south africa

Hawaii

Stone mirror,Turkey

Cherry blossom,Japan

Waterfall bridge,france

TIPS FOR 2016

Who wouldn't want a beautiful peaceful life

 Here are a few tips which i felt can really make a change in your life 

•  Meditate
•  Hydrate yourself
•  Stay clean
•  Get a good sleep. Sleep can really determine your day.
•  Eat "good" food instead of junk 
•  Listen to music 
•  Take a break from social network addiction 
•  Instead of going for a weekend DJ party, go for a trip with your friends and family
•  Get in touch with nature
•  Don’t expect too much from anyone 
• Try to put your problems in simple terms instead of exaggerating them 
• Self motivate 
• Find time for your hobbies 
• Spent time with your family
•  Learn something new everyday
•  Above all this find time for yourself, sit alone, if not everyday,atleast once in a week.Go somewhere where your mind finds peace, spend alone time. 

Love yourself because then only you can love others and your life too...:) HAPPY NEW YEAR :D

SILENCE

Naughty twitching lips
Brows that raise in doubt
Eyes that pop out with wonder
Crimson cheek of shy
And the plumpy red nose
Speak of her more than her words

 Unusual shortage of words
Tears raised to brim
 Restless sweaty palms
Cracking tone of voice
Speak of her more than her words

 Mouth spiliting smile
Sparkle in eyes
 Restless moving legs
Nonstoppable shriek of joy
Speak of her more than her words

 Continous thread of queries
Patient help of support
 Finding time to spare
Pumping words of dare
 Speak of her more than her words

LESS DID I REALIZE I WAS IN LOVE

 When heart beats leaped through by your sight
 Lips widened and face bright
Blushingly grin was all i could do
As words came out only as a coo.

 Less did i realize i was in love
When each view searched for your face
Things quickly changed their phase
When you opened up
And soon did i managed to win the cup
 Less did i realize i was in love

When each moment longed for your presence,
 The talks were never less of essence
And soon did i fell for For the life i had desired for

 Less did i realize This wouldnot last long
 As you werent the only person in the song
My shoulder was required
As he was all deprived

 Less did i realize
 I could get him safe ashore
 Bearing the pain getting sore
Hardly a choice i had
 As of for the lad
 Less did i realize I was not a "leave upto destiny" bin,
As each time my desire cuts in.
Dunno if its my immaturity haunting me,
 Or its truly the place i ought to be.

The art of feeling- how painful feeling emotion can be a good thing.. By shelley white A few years ago, I was placed on multiple antidepressants. Eventually, the realization that they were not only subduing depression but were subduing all other emotions to some degree as well prompted me to quit taking them. I learned you cannot simply cut off your ability to feel something, such as depression or any other emotion deemed negative, without cutting off your ability to fully feel everything else fully as well. The degree to which you are willing to experience any given feeling is in exact proportion with the degree to which you will experience all other feelings, willingly or not. Experiencing intense pain enables you to experience the ecstasy of life. Experiencing overwhelming despair brews a newfound gratitude for the happiness found in even the minutest of events and actions. After quitting antidepressants, I spent years groping my way through a hazy fog of unrelenting depression with no identifiable root cause. Although it took a while, emerging from the dark depths of depression faded from a mere fantasy into my reality. When it did, the newfound gratitude I had for my life was even greater than it was before depression entered my life. Perhaps when darkness, regardless of the tragedy that gave birth to it, is approached consciously and experienced without resistance, it uncovers hidden, previously ignored truths about yourself and the world around you, which in turn allows you to see life more clearly and enables you to live with more vitality and passion. There are many routes to transmuting darkness into light, suffering into joy, listlessness into productivity. The trick is to consider each possible path and make the effort to embark on the ones that call out to you. Keep in mind, notions herein regarding depression and dealing with it productively can apply to all emotions in some way, not only depression. HOW TO USE PAINFUL EMOTIONS TO BETTER YOURSELF View your dissatisfaction with life as a message from your inner self: When an aspect of your life is not in alignment with your soul’s desires and your core beliefs and you continuously ignore it, your soul will often rise up in opposition and manifest itself as a debilitating condition such as depression, leaving you with no choice but to spend time in solitude. Isolation from debilitating depression demands you to explore every corner of inner turmoil, inevitably bringing to light the behaviors, actions, hobbies, or habits which are not in alignment with your fundamental beliefs. In solitude, you begin to explore the deepest parts of your inner self, which inevitably leads to the unveiling of the inner conflicts hindering your life. You may find you are unbearably miserable with your mind numbing job that has stripped you of your appetite for wonder, a romantic or platonic relationship, familial discord, the way you allow people to treat you, or a plethora of other things. Whatever it is, inner child work via hypnosis, meditation, and journaling can help you identify it. Once you identify the root cause of conflict within, it is incredibly important to then take swift and immediate action to dissolve it. Otherwise, if you do not act, you risk worsening your depression by sending a message to your subconscious that although you know what is wrong and therefore what steps you need to take to take to begin healing, you do not think you are worth the effort to take them. Your subconscious is always eavesdropping on your thoughts, and responds accordingly. Channel negative energy into creative expression: You are likely familiar with the stigma that artists are tortured, depressed souls. Of course, this is not true for every artist, but nonetheless many musicians, writers, painters, and other types of artists have long been known to draw their creative energy from deep within the murky waters of depression. Perhaps this is due to the fact that depressed people tend to ruminate over details of past experiences more so than the average individual. There are invisible dimensions of feelings in our day to day lives that we all feel, both good and bad. The average person dismisses lingering memories of the “bad” ones at their earliest convenience while creative people, especially those who are depressed, dive deep into those feelings. Going deep into the darkness of depression is unavoidable when the extent to which you feel things is far greater than the average person. Depression is able to consume you because it evokes such strong emotion. This makes it an incredibly powerful tool for channeling your energy into creative work, perhaps more so than most other emotions. When you use this monumental force of energy, you step aside mentally and allow the essence of the universe to flow through you to create a work of art — a painting, a song, poetry, a book, and so on. Sharing your creative work with others helps you feel less alone. When others make an effort to pay attention to what you create, they likely identify with some part, or perhaps even all, of it. When this occurs, you contribute to an ever-growing and desperately needed collective movement to forge deep, compassionate connections with others in a world where we frequently separate and isolate ourselves from one another, often for surface reasons as trivial as race, political beliefs, disability, or societal status. When a diversity of people connect with the same work of art, whatever form it may take, the truth that we are all the same at our deepest levels becomes blatantly clear. You do not have to share your creative work with others for it to be productive, though. There are many ways in which engaging in privately kept artistic expression can be productively used to harness the monumental flow of energy from depression into creative activity. For example, a research study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology showed journaling about upsetting experiences and aspects of your life for a mere 15 minutes a day for only three days boosts levels of happiness. [1] If you are more prone to expressing yourself freely if you know it will be kept private rather than shared with others, then you should absolutely choose that option —if you push yourself to share your creative work publicly regardless of your hesitation to do so, still engaging in private creative work on the side not only amplifies the benefits of committing to inner work, it may also diminish feelings of angst or fear fueling your hesitation to openly express yourself. Both private and public creative expression are productive ways to minimize, if not overcome, depression. When you engage in creative expression fully, you drop into a meditative trance-like state. Although you do not realize it at the time, your consciousness makes contact with the inner demons hiding in your subconscious while in this state. When you emerge from this creatively induced trance-like state, so do the inner conflicts you uncovered within it, allowing you to finally acknowledge them and make peace with them.

love...

His name takes away a beat
 A glimpse of him brings goosebumps..
 His sound strokes my heart.
.His touch takes me to heaven..
The most beautiful feeling i have ever felt in my life...love.

 It can happen to anyone anywhere anytime...
even at a blink..
Only one person can make u feel That way ..
 The most special and wonderful feeling..
It feels like the time has stopped for u..
Everything seems to be so beautiful..
N if its true even years of relation seems to be all the new and all the more beautiful each day Distance doesnt matter..
 Even if u dnt talk at all..
 It can last for years...
all the same and more wonderful it feels
 N no one and nothing seems more important than him.
He makes your life..

MY LOST DAYS

At the age of three
Away from the protection of house tree
For the first time went to school
With eyes filled with water of pool

Under the guidance of 2nd mom
scribled education's first form
got new mates
of different state

Played the whole day
had fun...full of gay
as it was only kindergarden
the stage with no burden

KG classes came to an end
to 1st std we were send
letters started forming
from tips of small fingers still growing

Third std was the starting point of test
with sibilings doing their best
with teachers and parents waiting on hand and foot
it was easy to shoot

Happiness and pride were in fusion
when stepped up to 1st place in elocution
my inborn talent came out
found 'm some way unique among the lot

In 5th std flew to city of joy
mingling was a bit of coy
with different surroundings
soon formed various boundings

Learnt new languages and culture
saw different places and sculpture
away from the homeland
formed a new band

Three years flew away
called us back the bay
crossed the boundry
back we came to "gods own country"

Own land seemed different
without a friend
but soon people joined
"FRIENDSHIP" coined

In nineth new friends piled up
ready to fight problems coming up
people grouped into node
language was the gang code

Tenth was the crucial point
with studies at every joint
fun also fumed
as adolenscence boomed

Eleventh took away old mates
as everyone opted different gates
new people and atmosphere seemed sour
deviations were not sure

Ending half stocked joy
friends became both girl and boy
more fun was in store
enjoyed life to the core

Final year brought in tension
with tears as pension
as it was going to be the end
but 'unity' was the thing upon which we were bent

April to march passed in a blink of eye
last day waving bye
we still hoped to meet somewhere
with pain which was difficult to bare

A so called "farewell" was conducted
anger toward the head was ducted
by breaking the walls of rules
with available tools

school life became a past
teachers let us loose at last
but with regrets in mind
we still remain bind

looking back i wish i get back my school days but that wish will remain a mere wish now as my college days are about to start

MISS U

In every tick of clock
In every crow of cock
In every break of night
In every fall of light

I MISS U

In every breathe of mine
In every suns shine
In every moon's bright
In every sight

I NEED U

In every birth
In any where in earth
I want you to be with me
whereever it maybe...


MISS U ALL MY FRIENDS

Love is in the Air

mom says its not Fair
'Pop' says its Affair
Heart says its "Every-Where"
There was Time
when i was in demand
Surrounded by the Dear ones
With heart full of Regards
When sun used to shine Every time I smiled
and friends used to say
Im with you
but as time passed
and when need arrived
i found no one
standing close to me
heart said it's not fair
but no one was ther!!!
only the thought was there
"LOVE IS IN THE AIR"

FAILURE

Failure has ruined it all dear
Left behind with only pain and tear
Things are more than you can bear
So,its time to turn life's steer

God has shown you another way
To move from sorrow to gay
Now don't just lay
Come out from night to day


Walk towards your aim
Life is not more than you can tame
He was the one who recenthly came
So forget him and continue the game


Dont give up
For everything say 'yup'
Coz life is tough
But tea is still in your cup

I LOVE TO WALK IN THE RAIN

A walk in the rain
my feet in the mud

a patter of raindrops
as I look up above

Streets are flooded
I wade my way through

like a child lost in wonder
like a child lost in awe

And if I can dance without tripping

if I can just sing once more

I’ll thank the rain now washing my face

and I shall walk on and on and on…

as..

I LOVE TO WALK IN THE RAIN...!!

MY LOST FRIEND

Around the corner I have a friend,

In this great city that has no end,

Yet the days go by and weeks rush on,

And before I know it, a year is gone.




And I never see my old friends face,

For life is a swift and terrible race,

He knows I like him just as well,

As in the days when I rang his bell.




And he rang mine but we were younger then,

And now we are busy, tired men.

Tired of playing a foolish game,

Tired of trying to make a name.





"Tomorrow" I say! "I will call on Jim

Just to show that I'm thinking of him."

But tomorrow comes and tomorrow goes,

And distance between us grows and grows.


Around the corner, yet miles away,

"Here's a telegram sir," "Jim died today."

And that's what we get and deserve in the end.

Around the corner, a vanished friend.








Remember to always say what you mean.

If you love someone, tell them.

Don't be afraid to express yourself .

Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you.

Because when you decide that it is the right time it might
be too late.

Seize the day. Never have regrets.

And most importantly, stay close to your friends

and family, for they have helped

make you the person that you are today.